Pregnancy loss is one of the most common and least talked about social problems, spontaneous or not the mental and emotional impact is the same not only for the woman but also for the family that go with her. Even though this is a very broad topic, we talk a little bit about all the things are involved, and many literatures mention all the signs and symptoms but we have to question what truly a woman experiment. For the 2020 approximately 5717 miscarriages were recorded (OMS, Sexual and Reproductive Observatory, 2021) and it is curious than of all woman some of them are relatives or friends, at this point we can question ourselves what is truly happening whit a pregnancy loss or abortion and how woman handles it but she doesn´t dare to say for fear or shame, let´s delve just a little into the emotions from a different perspective based on a work experience to at last understand what no one says about gestational loss.